Accept the reality and find a way improvements

Accept yourself with open arms unconditionally and what it is. If we find ourselves being a failure, then accept this fact with relish. Then we correct the existing weaknesses and tried to get up. Do not despair. Because this does not alleviate the situation. But take yourself. Make it as a whip failure to improve the business and even harder to achieve our goals.
Accept yourself with full confidence. Sure success and immense confidence to raise the spirit. Do not ever confuse the mind with the basic values failures or successes are apparent.
Many experiences around us that can serve as an example. The people who do not want to accept him, do not want to accept the reality facing the people is just stupid. They prolonged despair as he blamed himself. From which they can be successful if every day is filled with wishful thinking?
Basically they could not accept him absolutely.
People who always received him with the requirements (not what it is, not all) then the person is classified in the negative-minded human. These negative mental influence and hinder success. People who have a negative mentality can be seen in terms of speaking, how to walk, and her countenance. Everything shows desperation.
Many people who fail in the first attempt to approach his goal. But they do not want to get up, do not want to continue his efforts. They are stuck in a prolonged despair that affects every move. The man had lost confidence in him. They always blame themselves and exaggerate his weaknesses. They do not remember the old saying that many roads lead to Rome.
Any bitter reality should be accepted gracefully. Then find the solution so as not sustainable. Use the time seefesien possible. The people who managed to improve his weaknesses as soon as possible because they regretted the time wasted just like that. Besides saving time, aware of the fact and fix weaknesses can also quickly restore confidence in himself so he could make an effort to approximate the original purpose.
Japanese people always use the appropriate time. Not that they do not experience failure. But they quickly took the initiative and try to make improvements as soon as possible. They did not despair and try to restore confidence as quickly as possible, then take action according to plan. This is what makes progress.